In her new memoir,” Enough Already: Learning to Love the Way I Am Today”, Valerie Bertinelli writes that people didn’t understand her and Eddie Van Halen’s relationship.  ”We were portrayed as a mismatch. The bad boy rock star and America’s sweetheart but privately, Ed wasn’t the person people thought he was and neither was I. I loved Ed more than I know how to explain. I loved his soul. I love you’ are the last words Ed says to Wolfie and me and they are the last words we say to him before he stops breathing.”